PEOPLE ARE SO RUDE!

how can people be so rude?
i mean i can't stand people who are rude and conceited. people that think they are better than everyone else. people who are superficial and fake. i don't like racist people.
how can people care more about the outside than the inside?
but question.. not liking racist people isn't racist is it? I'm thinking no because you can be male, female, white, african american, hispanic, asian.. anything to be racist. it's not just one group of people. it can be everyone. anyone.
i mean i went to highschool with kids like that. i mean edmond north. in edmond. that's about as superficial as it gets for oklahoma highschools. i mean i would meet people from different cities and they would ask where i was from. as soon as i said edmond every response i would get is "oh, your one of them. one of those superficial girls" no' i'm not. honestly, i don't even find myself attractive, but everyone sees people differently. i think everybody is pretty. i don't think that where you live should define the person that you are. i mean it is true the girls i went to highschool with didn't make it pleasant for alot of girls. i got teased but i would never take it seriously. im a very shy person unless your an asshole, then i can be a bitch. there is something im trying to spit out but im trying to figure out if by me sayting this am i one of those girls. i mean more that 75 percent of the girls i went to highschool with were either a cheerleader or on the pom, the dance team and also softball. i mean pretty much all of them had blonde hair, drove a bmw or a mercedes that their mommy and daddy bought them, they all had the same coach purse. and they all wore basically the same outfit. i mean they made girls that weren't like that feel like we weren't good enough. what makes them so god damn special that they can judge anyone whos a little bit different? that they can tease other girls? because they have money? their parents money? i mean one of my ex-boyfriends lived in a totally different city than i did. i met him in the city he lived in. my friend introduced me and before he even met me, he had decided that since i was from edmond i was one of those snobby, rich and conceited girls. and i hate that. my parents do have alot of money but they work hard for it. i don't get money from my parents. and you know what? after me and him talked for a while. this is what he said: "wow, when i was told you were coming, i expected that you were one of those girls. thats why i didn't even acknowledge you. i assumed that that's how you were. but after i got to know you.. you are one of the most real girls i've ever met. i mean you dont care about superficial stuff.." i dont know if by saying this makes me like the girls that im talking about.. but i cant stand people that are superficial. money isn't everything. and people that think it's okay to judge people before getting to know them are wrong. very wrong. because no one is better than anyone else.